Im a college student and I pretty much f ***** over by a close friend who pretty much used me and took advantage of me which all our other friends really knew. I didn't deal with the situation well, doing several things to get back even with him. For the most part I was a guy who did everything or everybody and I got taken advantage of and nobody know how angry that makes one feel. So I did my share of stupid things to piss the guy off, just so he could he half the anger that I felt. But most all my friends now 2 months later are still treating me a type of because of that. It seem like I am being defined by the few mistakes I made and not by the dozens and dozens of things that i went out my Way and did for them. And every day somebody seems to bring up the past and its makes me angry because I am trying to become a better person but how can I do that when I am constantly reminded of mistakes I made.