my ex. and me are very close and good friends she tells me at times that she loves and misses me but i dont know what to think anymore she tells me that she cant tell me now wether we will ever be together in the future and all and she agrees she dont want to lose me like i dont want to lose her like she wont ever not be friends with me and it sjust im very confused because theres another guy thats around her and she reassures me she doesnt want anybody and definetly doesnt want him but like she jokes when mad at me that there together and have done things and all and like we just talked and we were talking about and arguement we had and im not sure if she was just being mean towards me or what but she was telling me she ****** this guy i meen shes been horny and all that cause she hasnt had it in a while since me i would suppose b ut I cant begin to think she would have sex with im one cause hes ****** ugly and just ewwwwww but then theres also he likes her and wouldnt that lead him on even if it didnt meen nothing to her i dont know please some one let me know what you think
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I dont think you should wait around for this girl. It sounds to me that shes not very nice to you. You deserve better if shes going to not tell you if youll ever be together again so you will wait around for her then tell you shes having sex with a different guy. that is just not fair to you in any way. You should sit down with her and talk about this and tell her how your feeling and tell her you dont want to wait around when you could be working on a different relationship if thats what you want. explain to her that its not nice to make you wait around then have her telling you shes fooling around with a different guy. Obviously shes not thinking about your feelings if shes saying those things to you so i think you should move on if she wont tell you whether you have a chance.
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If shes your ex shes aloud to talk with guys..For whatever your reason of breaking up maybe should be talked about.. In reality you shouldn't be talking to her at all, if its a break-up i know its hard, and its okay to be hurt and cry.. HONESTLY, shes playing mind games with you.. Shes making you think every things okay, and the second things are going bad between you guys, shes threatening you about cheating/**** another guy.. Its supposed to hurt you. Its all for attention... You have to decide for yourself without any advise if you really wanna try to get this girl back and if so don't be so Nagy, you guys are broken up, just do sweet things to show her you care without going overboard. If she does move on with this guy, maybe you should as well, its always hard after a break up, but whats the use in trying to get someone back if there just not that into you anymore. Its reality.. Don't blame yourself for whats going on...Whatever happens, happens<3
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