I have to go to school every day and be reminded of my 3 old best friends who I used to love more than myself, and now they can't even be bothered to look at me. It hurts so much. Everyone teases me because they think I'm dating this guy which I'm not, but they do it playfully so I can't really tell them to shut up. I don't have any close friends, I thought I did, but I realized that they don't care that much about me. I have no one to talk to about my old friends because everyone I know is friends with them and ignores me when I try and talk about them. I'm so tired of trying to get my friends back and going to a living hell where I have to see all these people who are strangers to me now. I'm so tired of society and the teachers who think that they are better than me and think that I don't try, when I really do. Society=mindf*ck. I get up in the morning and am so dreadful and miserable. I'm okay when I get home. It's like I'm happy and sad at the same time. School just gets in the way and ruins everything. My dean is kinda like my guidance counselor so should I talk to him? I don't know how he could help though... Don't even know if anyone will answer this or how they could help :(
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I went through a similar thing when I was younger and still in school.
I learned to just be independent. I stopped caring and trying to be friends with people that were just strangers. Eventually, later on when I got into high school (my 10th grade year) I met some really awesome people who I became really close with. Maybe that will happen to you? Good things come to people that wait, after all.
Focus on your school work too. Stop worrying about people so much and just pay attention to your grades and stuff. It could get your mind off of all of the stupid people you have to deal with.
You could try going to your Dean about it if you really want to. Or you could go talk to your parents about it. I remember whenever I was having a hard time with people in my school I always went to my parents about it and always felt better afterwards.
I hope this helps at least a little. Good luck! :)
Hy!
You don't make it clear if the reason why you are hating school is because you don't have any friend to be around or is it because you are not licking the classes you are taking.
If it is because you aren't friend with anyone there, than I say there are billions of people I am pretty sure there is one that have the same goal and personality as you, who would you get along, So start looking out for them and be yourself.
This is a poem I hear Muhammad Ali telling, don't sure about the author.
"Friendship
Friendship is a priceless gift that cannot be bought nor sold
But its value is far greater than a mountain made of gold
For gold is cold and lifeless it can neither see nor hear
In time of trouble is powerless to cheer it has no ears to listen no heart to understand
It cannot bring you comfort or reach out a helping hand
And so when you ask God for gift be thankful if he send not diamond pearl or riches but the love of a real true friend
"
from your description i think your dean will help you. Therefore just go and meet your dean and explain the scenario of your problem to him and i hope he might have chat with your 3 old best friends and explain the difficulties facing by you for them. This will turn out to be good at the end of the day.
Don't ever think about society, society will always bark but won't help when needed. Therefore no need to worry about this dam society.
Can't really help you much, because I'm going through kind of the same thing. I dread getting up and going to school in the morning to see the friends that ignore me. My advice to you is to join some club, or sports team, or something.