a girl behind me kept bothering me taking all my stuff away all the time and so I went and told the teacher and she gave her detention and then since she's a popular girl she told all her friends and now everybody is calling me a snitch and tattle tell and today when we had a substitute in our class she kept sayin mean things like "HUH huh why were u crying the other day huh huh you little bich. your such a tattle tell huh huh huh why were you crying huh huh huh" and said other mean things and then i said "ok first of all i dont really give a crap and im not even mad at you im just annoyed" and shes telling everyone at school i cried and when i walk in hallways cool kids are looking at me. also when she was saying all that stuff of "why was i crying" my hand was shaking a lot and i couldnt stop it i felt like crying again and my hand was shaking a lot why? she is being mean to me in class i dont want to tell an adult of this though because my parents already know im a loner at school and i feel like theyre not proud of me and this would just make it even worse to tell an adult. what should i do and what should i say on monday in class to her, i was ignoring her but she just kept saying mean things and i was shaking i feel like crying
Update:she also took my pads my mom put in my backpack and threw it and everybody laughed and she took my phone and looked through my pictures and changed my passwrod etc.
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Well first of all who ever that girl is sounds like bi*** and if she says anything to you on Monday like why are you a tattle tale then you could say you would rather be a tattle tale then a bich like her and she should just get over like she got detention big deal!! (if you stand up for your self she will probably leave you alone) and if she doesn't then maybe you could try telling your parents you can't stand it in this school anymore and you want to go to another one or get home schooled good luck
This girl sounds evil. She has no respect even for herself. To look through your pictures and change your password is a violation of privacy. I don’t think you are the only one she picks on. There are usually others who are to fearful to speak out. The ‘good’ kids in your school are in it just for the entertainment and are more then likely glad she is not picking on them. There are three ways to handle the situation. The first is to stick with your friends and never let her catch you alone. Don’t talk to her anymore then just a good morning like you would a clerk in a store. She will intensify the attention for a while but when she doesn’t get a reaction from you, her attention will fade. The second is to fight back. This never worked for me because I am not the fighting typ. But it has worked for others. But when you fight someone like this girl, you must lower yourself to her level and be willing to get caught. The third and the one I used are to out smart the bully. Most bully act on fear, if you can negate that fear you have won. The only attention a bully gets is negative and negative attention seems to be better then no attention at all. Let the evil people dig their own graves. You don't even have to push then into the hole, they will fall on their own.
I can tell you, all the popular kids in my middle school went on to live very mediocre lives (I'm 30). Here's a list if the kids that picked on me: one got pregnant in high school and gets beat by her husband, another one was hooked on pain killers, started smoking, gained a bunch of weight, and married too early because he got his girlfriend pregnant, another went to jail for statutory rape, another one is in drug rehab and can't get a job, and yet another one was on the FBI most wanted list for cocaine possession and mortgage fraud and was caught last year. These are some of the people who picked on me and then grew up thinking they were invincible and now realize their antics don't work in the adult world. I am married, have two kids who are healthy and a very loving family. I went to college, got a degree and am working in my competitive field living the dream. My point is, don't worry about those losers who pick on you (and probably are insecure themselves) because life has a funny way of sorting out the losers and culling the herd once reality hits. Keep your chin up, it gets a lot better.
This is what I did, my case was a little worse though. I went up to the kid and Threw a right hook, he went down hard, little fag started to get up so I stomped his A$$ out. I never got caught and he never did so much as look at me again. Try to fend for yourself, if she corners you stomp that biotch.
Girl tell your parents they might not act like there proud but they are they love you if you follow my advice please tell me cause that is sad