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Physical abuse, is unacceptable, verbal abuse is a different story. People get upset at the dumbest things that their spouses say,and that is not an excuse to bail.

Yes I do take marriage very seriously, I've put up with a lot of crap because I made a covenant between God and my husband.

no my sister is mental been in and out of wards many of times. She is abusive towards people even children at time. It's no reason to be abusive. Some doc's say it's all in their head because anymore many people blame "mental" issues or depression on a lot of actions in their life. My sister has suffered from mental illness sense we were kids and will I will leave my opinion of it to myself. Please don't think that is a reason or an excuse for someone to be abusive because it's not.

a mental dsorder is n excuse for abuse- ever. I know feeling commited because of children and vows, "till death do us part."

if you or your children are in any form of danger- physically, sexually, or emotinally, ou need to put your kids safety and health as well as yours first right now. if you truly feel the help will eventually work, consider staying with friends and relatives until said person can get out of the worst of it.. offer support, not a punching bag. maybe seperating will also eventually allow the person to see how bad the problem is, and how much they need to work on it in order to keep thier and thier families life safe and happy. abuse in any form is traumatizing, and can give you a form of "emotional" death, where you feel hopeless and dead inside.

vows are sacred and important, but at sometime you need to evaluate your emotional life, and your safety. I wish you all the best and if you ever need a shoulder email me anytime.

I believe that if your spouse is not seriously putting you or your 3 childrens' life at risks, it is ok to stay and work things out. You might also want you talk to a doctor that specializes in these things and asks them for advice as well.

Another thing, if you notice or even think your children are being affected, get out, even if just to clear your head with them, because that is not how you want them to remember you and your spouses' relationship.

You should have left him when you had no children and he was being abusive. If the medication is working then there shouldnt be a problem, besides you now have three children and it may be hereditary so wouldnt it be better that the children know about their fathers illness by seeing how he copes with it.

Sorry.

This question is too difficult to answer with such limited information. Only someone that is living this situation can sort it out for them selves and there is no single correct answer.

Very complicated.

what happend to in sickness and in health? dont you remember the moment you said those word how your heart really ment it? the question is are you still in love with the man its not his sickness that is in question its your love for him thats no longer there for you to be asking this question!