My mom doesn't understand. Today she decided that since my best friends mom doesn't answer the door when she comes to pick me up that she's not responseable, even though 80% of the time I'm with her mom (who is awesome) and that since I hang out with highschoolers (just 2 years older than me) That their bad influences on me. So after all of her wrong assumptions she decided I can't go over my best friends house. When I got upset and told her how what she thought was wrong she kept making up exsuses (like I hang out with this girl I just met and don't even know) and left. How do I get her to see how much these people mean to me and how horrible it is to keep me away.(p.s. My freind is having a cosplay party soon and all of her and my friends are going to her house for that party. I really wNt to be able to go so I need help fast!) and also my dad is kinda iffy but I'm not sure who's team he's on. Please, these people are my only real friends and I love them more than I love my family. Seriously. My sisters have never ever ever said I love you to me ever.serious. Please I love these people do much and I can't afford to lose them. If I do, I serioulsy might become depressed. For real depressed. Not the fake emo **** depressed, I mean the real depressed.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
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Don't fight with your mom ,maturely inform her of how important the relationship is to you and focus on helping her to realize that her assumptions are ridiculous maybe by introducing your friends to her and informing her that in order to develop strong relationships you need to meet and give new people a chance; because you never know they could turn out to be your best friend. In terms of age hanging out with people a couple years older than you may seem fine but to a parent of a teenager that's when their protective instincts kick in. I respect why your mom feels this way(just looking out for you) but allow her to trust you and inform her while you appreciate it you need a little space and she needs to release you and let you make your own choices, and don't fight with your mom it just makes you look immature and proves her point. good luck:)
Have her meet this girl's mom. I know it sounds lame, but if it's the center of the problem, that seems like th only thing you can do. And if you really are doing what you tell her you're doing, then it shouldn't be a big deal.
tough. well maybe you can ask this question on jamrie.com
its more of a personal advice website.
people over there might be able to help you out.just trying to help