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If that's your own picture as your profile pic, I'd say you are very good looking :)

Don't think about it, we men are always fascinated by exotic women ;)

Think about the exotic men, they think you are exotic too... If you get what I meeeeeen :/

Hi there! I'm a Latvian girl with grey eyes, light brown hair, and pale skin. Growing up in a homogenous country, the European look seemed ordinary to me. However, when I moved to the United States and saw a ''melting pot'' of people from different countries, I was amazed at how beautiful everyone is. A local university back in my country had three Vietnamese girls for a study abroad program and all of the students were amazed by their exotic looks because it's very seldom there. Each country is made up of distinct groups of people, with hair, eyes, and skin color ranging from dark to light. There are many people (including myself) who find the Asian look attractive because it's just something different from the ordinary! Be happy with yourself and emphasize the beautiful features that you were given! Even I have those moments where I wish I looked like a Brazilian model, such as Adriana Lima, but I know that I should be satisfied with the way I look.

By the way, is that you in your profile picture? If so, wow! You're very pretty!

Have a nice day! :-)

Here's the thing: there is so much variety in people's looks, skin colour, hair colour, shape of face, body type, etc., that it's impossible to say which ONE look is 'perfect'. In any case, personal preference is just that, personal. Some people are attracted to Asians or Africans, others like Latino or European. No big deal. And while they might find one particular look 'hot', at the end of the day it's not the 'look' that keeps them interested, but the personality.

Your boyfriend said a woman in a film was hot. So what. Don't YOU think men in films are hot? Don't you fancy, say Brad Pitt - okay, he might be a bit long in the tooth for someone your age, but you get the idea. Don't you watch films with hunky fine men in them and think 'whoar, I wouldn't mind getting the ride off THAT' - or maybe you'd word it differently where you live, but that's what we'd say in Ireland. And believe me, we say it in Ireland. No reason why you can't say such things to your chap if you wanted. If he doesn't like it, you can sweetly point out that HE told YOU he thought yer woman in Skyfall was 'hot', and that he think redheads are attractive. And you can say to him that YOU think blonde men ( or whatever) are hot.

The thing is, love, I doubt your boyfriend was trying to have a dig at you. The fact that he would say something so openly to you is a good indication that he finds you easy to talk to. And he wouldn't be your boyfriend in the first place if he didn't think you are attractive. So now you need to stop thinking that what he's saying is some kind of implied criticism - because it isn't - and start practising your 'whoars, check that **** out on that' to some fine thing on the telly. Hugh Jackman? Knock yourself out. Totally whoarable. Yer man who plays Thor? Oh yes. Come to Mama. Who cares what his name is, he's eminently shagable. Seriously. Get your girlfriends together and go watch Troy and do it. Great fun. I'm only suggesting Troy because the men are all almost naked in it, and are VERY fit. Now say it again: WHOARRRRR!!!! Very good.

And as for having small boobs, hon, you just have to dress differently. Well-stacked ladies have to work hard to keep themselves lean, or pay through the nose for plastic surgery, and what they have isn't exactly subtle or mysterious. Ladies with small boobs, on the other hand, can wear the most elegant slinky backless numbers or even slightly see-through tops and not have to concern themselves with bra straps or any of that business, and often have lovely slim arms as well.

Now I'm trying to remember if I have ever met anyone from Thailand, and honestly, nobody comes to mind. I have, however, seen Thai dancers on television, and thought they were beautiful and elegant, with really pretty faces. Don't feel lost just because how you look isn't all around you, hon. I think for most people, YOU would be considered rather exotic, certainly where I live.

Now go practise your WHOARRS. Atta girl.

I'm from Russia and we have our "problems" with self-image. Pale as death and even "blue" legs after winter, when many girls are shy to wear dresses or skirts because of this problem. Or so called "mouse" color of hair - not really blonde already, but never brown due to lack of red pigment - majority of women have this "unattractive" grey like a mouse by our standard color of hair. Or impossibility to wear those cute Asian multi-layer outfits because of too prominent breast-hips, when you start to look like a cabbage instead of being elegant. Or when without make-up you are pale like a death, but with make-up you are vulgar-looking. How to find to find a balance in make-up?

Plus we envy your slim bodies, when you can wear dresses without bra etc...

As you see, girls of any appearance have these crazy ideas about self-imperfection. Just always remember that there are those who dream to have features you have. They would be so glad to have straight hair instead of curly, be slim instead of curvy etc... But you have it already!!! :) I'm sure you are very cute and there is no any reasons to feel insecure!!!