im 6 months pregnant and i am feelin very insecure i feel fat and ugly and its makin me worried my husband will want someone prettier and skinnier he tells me im beautiful all the time but its hard for me to believe him and our sex life is still great but the last couple of times it kinda hurted and we like it really rough and i just can't do it like that right now im worried he will get it from someone else am i just being paranoid??
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You are being totally paranoid!!! Pregnancy is sooo hard sometimes! I know how you feel, and so does every other woman who has had a child! Your husband loves you!!! Just take a deep breath and relax!
Here is a little story that I hope will help you:
Right after I had my son I was sitting at the kitchen table nursing him one afternoon and thinking about how fat and ugly I was and how I wouldn't blame my husband (then boyfriend) if he did find another woman to sleep with. Just as I was starting to really get sad I looked up and noticed him (husband) gazing fondly at me. He told me that I had never been more beautiful than I was at that very moment and he never realized how sexy motherhood could be.
The point is, I guarantee you that your husband is changing (mentally) as much as you are and you need to trust him. It is all going to be over very soon anyway and you will have a beautiful baby to show for the pain! Enjoy yourself!!! Pregnancy is a very unique experience and your feelings are totally normal!
Just remember you are pregnant and your hormones are all over the place and if you are feeling like this and your husband really loves you then he will understand. You are glowing at the moment (even though you don't feel like that) but you have a little baby inside of you and that is a small miracle. Try to focus on the baby and tell you husband how you are feeling and why you are feeling that way because if he doesn't know then how can he help you? Good luck with your new little addition.
Believe it or not, allot of men find their partner sexy when they are pregnant. There is a glow about pregnant woman and im sure your husband feels more closer to you than ever right now because you are carrying his child and he must feel very excited and lucky to have you. if he is telling you you are beautiful he means it. you are being paranoid, if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him while you have been together than you have nothing to worry about.
I proposal I was once paranoid while my ex-spouse and her daughter continuously appeared to have surprisingly alternating textual content messages. All three people within the equal room and one mobile could beep. Then,the others could beep. and many others and many others. I could not aid however believe that is bizarre. I checked her mobile on a textual content message hunt. They have been texting each and every different, with recommendations of what to inform me in order that they might sneak out and play with the lads who had dope.Paranoid no,divorced YES.
youre just being paranoid because of the circumstances. Its natural but hey...if your husband is that shallow would you really want him to be the father to your beautiful upcoming children anyway? Good luck and congrats...enjoy it!
PS...pregnant women are very very sexy in a way...its tough to explain and mostly belongs to the father...but its very real.
Your hormones and body changes have you a little anxious right now. Unless he comes out and says you are fat and ugly, or when you two are sitting on the couch and he is going "ga ga" over the skinny people on the tv, I wouldn't worry.
yes. I have had four kids and felt the same way every time. For last part of the pregnancy we could only do certain positions because other ones hurt.
lol nope a lot of men actully get turned on by the whole pregnet thing my friend is pregnet and her husband can't keep his hands off of her don't worry at all thats only a sighn of you being moody during pregnetse
you shouldn't feel insecure. he loves you and he won't leave while you are pregnant. everyone feels a bit 'fat' when pregnant but i bet you have glowing skin and pregnant women are beautiful people and i hope that you start to think of yourself as Beautiful again, because you are
no your not being paranoid. alot of women go though this when they are having a baby. but some husbands love seeing there wife pregnant. so enjoy it. but for now just take it easy when you are having it.