my best friend, I mean. she's with this guy who's got her on a roller coaster ride. she's been with a similar guy before, who was way, WAY worse, and in that case he had gotten a few girls pregnant before: all of whom had an abortion. anyway, that doesn't matter right now. i just want reenforcement for her to realize that she deserves way better than that. she's smart, talented, beautiful, and she deserves someone who isn't in it just for sex or just to have someone to hang out with.
don't you think that anyone deserves the best? that they deserve everything life has to offer? i think so. please agree.
p.s.
she reads my questions on yahoo!. i want her to know that she deserves the best. i want her to hear it from a ton of people and please tell why you think people deserve the best, because if its insensitive then she won't believe it. she needs to believe in herself! please help me! please help me help her!
Update:I just want to add something. i LOVED what "D.C." said. the "OR" part. i think that may be the case, and maybe you guys can also help me by helping convince her that it IS better to be alone than with someone bad? and that she wouldn't be alone, with friends like me and our other friend, Brit.
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well all i can tell your friend is that she deserves way better than that jerk.she deserves someone who gives and takes not somebody who just take from her.you are a beautiful girl, move on girl don't be the next one that he will get knocked up. you have a brighter future if you just let your guy go coz i don't think he is the right one for you.you need somebody who will cherish you, be there when you have problems,be a shoulder you can cry on and he will be willing to be your best friend.you should be with someone who wants to know you,make u laugh and love you always not some guy who want you every once in a while just to have sex with you.be with your friend i think she is a good friend coz she is concern about you.you can find somebody else dont think he is the last guy on earth for you ok.go out , have fun, show him your not desperate for him.
You don't think the guy is good enough for her.. and as a good friend of her's I hope she listens to your opinion.
My guess would be this guy makes her feel a certain way or does something (in bed) no other guy has done.. and she likes it.
OR she has such a low self esteem she doesn't think she deserves better and doesn't want to be 'alone'
News flash.. a guy that treats you like dirt now will always treat you like dirts. Better to be alone than be a doormat.
Honey Child
You can't change your friend if she don't want to change, and it is not your place to try. Friends are there to be supportive and if your friend needs help to sort out her life then you are there to sort her out and get her through it. Until that time leave her alone if she is happy (not if you think she is happy) and stop interfering. It will only come back to bite you in the ***. If her relationship ends with this guy then you will be the world's worst for having interfered and your friendship will be no more and you will not be able to help her at all.
OBVIOUSLY SHE DOES.
Go forward, girl! Never backwards!
Go out with someone who really LOVES yo.