Ok not going to lie I am a little mad right now. I was in the tub soaking trying to work on getting rid of the flu that I have and my little 4 year old comes in with chocolate on her face. Mind you it is 9:30 at night, but no school tomorrow so whatever. All I did was ask what it was and an all out war broke out. I got out of the tub to all three of my kids fighting and yelling about who got into the cookies. I even told them I don't care and they kept fighting. I don't understand it. No one was in trouble what so ever. I have a 4, 9, and 11 year old. youngest and oldest are girls middle is boy. They are always trying to throw the other under the bus. I don't remember fighting this much with my sister. Anyone else have this same problem? What do you do to make them stop all the fighting and lies?
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well, i am the second oldest of three girls....
and the two little ones get into HUGE sissy fights....
it gets real ugly sometimes...
but what i do is i get them both in room, have them relax and stop talking, and just have them rest and relax without saying anything for a moment
then i have each one tell her story
then i come to a conclusion of what to punish them so that they don't fight like that again
after that, i have them both hug each other and apologize to each other
i really hoped that this helps you! :D
Well, when my older brother and I were little we used to fight a lot and blame each other for everything but now that we're teens we get along really well especially because my parent are both doctors so there always gone but that's just part of growing up. What your kids are doing is completely normal.