So today our guidence counselor came in and she was showing us videos on the smartboard (a board that shows whats on your computer) and she put a quiz up and we took it and she put a video up about a kid getting bullied and he killed himself b/c of it and that was 8th period so after that we got on our bus and then people were talking about me and i'm not saying i'm rich but the people who were talking about me live in the most shittiest apartments and I live in a brand new house that got built last year so they have their aeropostale, hollister, and AE on and stuff I have some but not much and I try to step my game up by wearing skinny jeans and I bought some new blazers and ed hardy but they still mess with me and I have pimples b/c of puberty and i'm not that attractive and I know it but the point is why do they do it b/c they saw that video and how the kid killed himself b/c he was getting bullied but it had NO effect on them and it really makes me feel like just dying or moving to a new school or something i'm not gonna kill myself, im not gonna tell a teacher, im not gonna tell any staff, and I don't know how to fight that well but I can defend myself if I have 2 I know how to fight a little im 12 years old in the 7th grade so just see if you can come up with a solution please b/c im really tired and I have no comebacks and I just sit there and look stupid
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Ok dude
Here's what you do
Take A Martial Arts class or attend YMCA and learn how to fight, then make some friends and get them to back you up to make you look tougher and not to mess around with, Then you go to them and say some insults if they try to beat you up your friends got your back and plus you know Martial Arts to defend yourself. IGNORE THEIR INSULTS LOOK COOL AND PRETEND NOT TO CARE THEN MAKE THEM MAD AND WALK AWAY....IF THEY TRY TO FIGHT YOU THATS THE CUE TO FIGHT, BUT THINK FIRST DONT I MEAN DONT HIT THEM FIRST!!
If these dont work then threaten them to tell the teacher and get close to a teacher when their by you, in a couple weeks they'll get tired and stop,
YOU GO ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS
TO KEEP THEM AWAY JOIN SPORTS MAKE MORE FRIENDS AND MOST OF ALL BE NICE DONT SHOW OFF!!
This is my last year at our middle school. From my experience, the people who were already bullies will not change, and the people who hang out with them or the people who have mean tendencies now probably will get worse. When I was a 6th grader we were all a little scared so we all sticked together. I'm not sure about your school, but our school makes 6th grade a stepping stone. Basically, they put us in a class and we had 1 teacher for 3 subjects and we had 2 teachers for 2 other subjects, but we stayed with the same kids for every class. I know a lot of people say it, but it really isn't that bad. People really dont' get shoved in lockers and thrown in garbage cans. Stick with your friends and everything will be fine. If a bully does bother you or someone, you really should tell a teacher, guidance counselor, or an adult you trust.
Little dude,
That sucks. First of all, don't fight. They will gang up on you. Also, don't worry about coming up with smart comebacks. Again, they're ganging up on you and you won't win.
One thing you can do is to exercise. I know that sounds too simple, but it helps when you're feeling a little depressed, and it will make you a less desirable target. Can you do some sort of after school activity, like sports, so you don't ride the bus with these fools? Do you think you could ride your bike to and from school?
You might also want to take a fresh look around at the other kids in school. If there are bullies it means there are other people beside you who are being bullied. When you're in elementary school you just become friends with people. It just happens. In middle and high school you make choices about who will be your friends. It sounds to me like you need to find a clique that accepts you, and then you'll feel a lot more secure at school..
Why do they do it? Because they can and (mainly) to get a reaction out of you.
Do you give them any reaction at all? Look upset, look angry, look hurt? I suspect you do.....you already notice that they are talking about you. Give them no reaction whatsoever. Practice keeping a blank expression on your face.Blank them entirely. That way they'll get bored.
If you don't tell staff or a teacher (which is actually the most sensible ad helpful thing you can do), there is nothing else you can do.
Telling an adult will actually sort this out very speedily. Fighting most certainly will not.
First tell a teacher, a principle or an parent that you are getting bullied at school. But if that doesnt work out, the only thing you have to do is stand up to them.
ok 1st of all u dont need to kill ur self or any bull **** all u need to do is kick their asses and make them scared of u.If they are scared with u they wont **** u over.Learn more fighting skills if u cant fight suggest youtube but dont hurt urself.And with the bullying u think they are better than u cuz they bully u they have no life so they find someone to pick on,because they have nothing better to do.
I know how you feel dude you can tell the teacher or ignore them or JUST PUNCH THEIR HEAD AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH
ok
it was a bit weird at the last lol :D
i would have fight back