Ok so this guy and I had a thing, and I went to the mall to hang out with him, but I brought my friend. I introduced them. Later I find out that he likes her and she likes him. So I get mad. My friend promises to not talk to him anymore, she says "I would rather be friends with you than be with him." So I gave her another chance. The other day I posted my myspace status as something about Angela kissing some guy, that we were joking around about. The guy saw it and flipped out on her, and told her to never talk to him again. I asked him what was wrong, and he wouldnt tell me. later I asked if it was about Angela. and he spilled the beans and told me they had still been talking behind my back, and that they were pretty much dating, and that he broke up with her, and that he was really sorry about doing that to me. I told her that I'm not going to be her friend. She keeps asking me to be her friend again, but I dont want to anymore.
What do I say to her? I want to tell her that I dont want to be her friend anymore, but i don't want to be a ***** about it.
And him and I are talking again, and I still really like him. I want to ask him if I'm wasting my time again; but I don't want to make it seem all emotional and stuff.
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hun if ur gonna ditch her as a frend u cant talk to him either. remember he went behind your back too, not just her. so forgive them both or dont forgive either of them. but ya u might be wastin your time with him so id find someone new...
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you need to grow up. your letting a guy ruin your friendship?! so what if he liked your friend? you should have been happy for them. obviously your young but you should know now, dont ever let a guy come between you and friends. a guy could come in and leave like 2 months later and your left without your friends. get over it.