people always tell me i have pretty eyes and that i'm skinny but i have such low self esteem and i don't need to hear ohh everyones pretty and stuff like that you know its not true.my friend told me this girl called me pre pubescent which doesn't make sence to me because i'm not flat im a big b and 5'3 ish . now i feel really bad about myself. is there anything i can do to look un prepubescent ??? please help
Update:just saying im a girl and i weigh 98 pounds
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Quit worrying about what other people say or think.
Those who make derogatory comments about others are usually insecure themselves, & attempting to make themselves appear important by putting other people down. See their efforts for what they are, nothing more than a sad attempt at some form of twisted 'happiness'.
Ignore them & their comments.
Concentrate on the person of your heart, rather than your physical form!
Aim for taking care of your all-around health, & learn to love yourself the way you are. After all, God does, and only those who do the same are worth you expending your time, energy, & affection on them, anyway!
For more encouragement & suggestions, you can read:
"How to Find Real Happiness"
- Think of Your Spiritual Needs
- Keep Your Life Simple
- Happiness -&- Self-Worth
- Hope---Vital to Happiness
http://watchtower.org/e/20010301/article_02.htm
'How Precious Your Life IS!'
http://watchtower.org/e/20050201/article_02.htm
"How Can I Cope With Stress at School?"
http://watchtower.org/e/200809a/article_01.htm
"How Can I Stop the Gossip?"
http://watchtower.org/e/200708a/article_01.htm
"We All Need Friends"
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good -vs- Bad Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
Wow that's just mean of her. Honestly there is nothing meaner than teenage girls. If you're thin then maybe she wishes she was thinner or something.
You're right; not everyone is techincally pretty but everyone IS pretty to someone. Look at any celebrity out there; some people think they are super hot and other people think they're gross. Really though if you want to look good don't try to dress too old or too young - that usually backfires and makes people look weird and creepy. Best thing to do is to start paying attention to what celebrities your age are wearing and start trying on new clothes until you find what looks good on you. Find your style and then have fun with it. You'll find that when you do, you'll love how you look and won't care what some mean cow says.
okay. If you are skinny, do some weights and drink 2 pints of milk a day. Chicks dig big arms.
And second of all. you got to man the f*** up. Seriously i was a bit like you back in the day. If you think your the dog's bollocks and walk around thinking your the s***. You'll get respect.
Listen to oasis, they changed my life. watch a few Liam or Noel Gallagher interviews, believe me, you'll want to be like them.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p29MG7wn4F8
Well...I use to have the same problem. But you know who you are and sorry, I can't make you believe in yourself. Once you realize who you are and accept yourself, no one can call you fat or ugly.
I feel you. This is my situation exactly. Let me tell you, though, that none of this bullshit is worth it in the long run.