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You need to tell the parents that you were being responsible and that you feel that you are adult enough to make this decision. If they still don't agree, then you just need to respect their wishes (or go out to dinner and do it in the car - bad as far as respecting parents but a workable solution).

Well this is a tough one. How old are you anyways? First of all, Being responsible is important and I commend you for taking the proper steps in that! Now , as far as his step mom finding out....You guys should respect her. Weather she knows you are responsible or not, if she doesn't want you guys having sex in her house then you should respect that. If you are adults, you can figure out ways to be alone elsewhere. If you are younger.....maybe you should just relax a little. There is a time and place for everything and if you cant find a time and place for something maybe it's not meant to be?!

Sorry, but you shouldn't be left alone. I don't understand how you can say you are *very responsible* while having sex when I'm sure if the next time the birth control fails and you get pregnant you or your long time boyfriend of 9 months have jobs that will pay for a baby. JMO

Unless you can afford to raise a baby for at least 18 years, you're NOT being responsible. Do you and your boyfriend both have reliable full time jobs? If not, I don't blame his stepmom one bit. She's doing what any good parent would do and likely saving you from years of heartache and hell.

How can you two get alone again? The answer is simple.....motel are always open 24/7.....it's cheap. Also, you won't have to worry about being caught. It's quiet, comfortable and worry free. It doesn't matter if you're of legal age or not as long as you can stand up on your own and control your life. Have a nice life, have a nice sex!

Don't be in his room. Or your room. Its not as comfortable, but go somewhere else-a park, or even a restroom somewhere.

I like to go to the handicapped restroom at the grocery store to be with have sex. He sits on the toilet-you get the picture. Choose a bathroom somewhere that no one goes to.

If you get creative, you can have sex almost anywhere. I like to do it somewhere sort of risky, where there's a SLIGHT chance of being caught.

You can go behind the bleachers somewhere if its dark. Actually, you can have sex almost anywhere if its pretty dark.

maybe respect her wishes you are living in her house ..or he is what ever, yeah i guess you should sit down and all have a talk about it, you can tell someone all u want not to have sex but nature finds its way lol.i would talk to her about it and maybe find a solution, at least you are being careful but careful doesn't always matter the best way to not have kids is abstinence and I'm sure that's not the first or last time u hear it baby doll!!

Well, it's a good thing that she found it, because it's irresponsible and childish to have sex when you aren't capable of raising a child or seeing a doctor for a disease.

What the..? Are you of legal age? If so she can't stop you, so speak to her about it and voice your opinion. If you aren't of legal age, it's understandable that your stepmother doesn't want youse committing a crime, 'cause if you get caught, the court won't care whether youse were responsible or not, just whether the act actually happened.

k remember that having sex is special and a privilege.... ill admit it i had sex at the age of 17. so kids will do what they want.... if you have a car? go in that that's what i did. but remember to always use a condom. and yes its not the best place to do it in your parents house kind of weird and creepy.... don't do it in public cause if you get caugth there will be alot more trouble ahead of you.