Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together since oct.24,2013 and at first it a amazing. I heard from his friend tht hes had a lot of girlfriends in one year (which i dont mind cuz i just dont) but now he hardly talks to me, and his old best friend told me tht he cheated on me twice. At first i couldnt believe it but then my best friend told me the same thing. Idk what to or who to believe. (oh and my boyfriend isnt friends with his old best friend cuz my boyfriend told his girlfriend, "oh come on babe sit on my lap ... Isnt here to see" while he was dating me.) my boyfriend acts like everything is ok but why would my friends lie.?
So my question is...what do u think ? Is he cheating or not.? And who should i believe..my best friends or my boyfriend ?
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I would believe your best friends.. Always go with your best friends than your boyfriend. I learned that the hard way. Try talking to him if you'd like.. But if a lot of people are saying he cheated on you then I'm sorry hun, but it has to be true.
You sound like you still young and stilk have a lot of learning to do. Well I cant say if he is cheating but if you heard he had a lot of girlfriends then maybe. Boys are only after one thing it is tryin to getbin your pants. You only been dating for 1 in a half months. Slow down and dont let thes boys make a fool of you. Pregancy and stds are real and plus yourfemale friends may be right about him but you never know how some females try to break up someone just because they want them or they dont have anyone. Slow down you have plenty of time to have a desent boyriend.
You haven't been dating for a month, so if something is going on - it will be best to figure out now.
Dating is a pain, and when we figure out it isn't going as we planned - it's even more of a pain. I would honestly say keep a close eye on everybody, even your friends. Don't mention any of this to your boyfriend, as he'll most likely deny everything he's doing if he is cheating.
Find proof, is all you can do.